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Ok, I have never posted an E/N thread before but if there was ever a time to post one, now is it. It all started when I introduced my girlfriend to WoW. I got her in my high end raiding guild thinking she would hit level 40 and then quit. She actually became quite involved, and I helped her with quests and such. She made a priest, which matched with my 60 mage in Tier2+AQ gear quite well. Anyway, fast forward to her hitting level 60. After some convincing I get her into regular BWL raids in shitty blue and green gear. She is auto'd a lot of gear because all of our priests have pretty much everything they want out of BWL, and she is very happy about this. It was kinda nice, coming home after work, and sitting in the same room with her, being able to share my hobby. I thought it strengthened our relationship significantly. We talked a lot more, spent more time together, and generally got along better. I should have known that when WoW became the topic of conversations 90% of the time that it might be getting too unhealthy. After she was geared up a bit, she got used to being on ventrillo and chatting with the guild members. Now, I'm not the passive aggressive type so I made sure all of those little nerds knew that she was my woman, and that we lived together. She had a few puppy dogs follow her around, but nothing too serious. However, I began to notice that her and my guild master had been talking quite a bit in tells. Every time I came in the room she would switch to her combat log so I couldn't see what she was talking about in tells. I thought nothing of it, I used to have a nervous tick like that when I lived with my parents. Well, one day I came home and she was in the bathroom. I looked on her screen and saw some very... sexual and detailed conversation with my guild master. My heart starts pounding. I storm to the bathroom door while she's taking a shit and start pounding on it, I screamed "ARE YOU FUCKING MY GUILD MASTER" "ARE YOU SERIOUSLY FUCKING DOING THIS TO ME?" Silence. She knew what happened. She knew she should have logged off when she went to take a shit. I guess it was fate's way of clueing me in on what the fuck was going on. She came out after about 20 minutes and told me that she had fallen in love with my guild master, let's call him "Tom". Tom lives about 4 hours from us and we had never met, but she later confessed that one of the weekends she spent with her "parents" was actually at Tom's house. She said they had sex, a lot. I started crying uncontrollably. What was I going to do? We are in a lease contract for another 7 months, how the fuck can I handle this? I went right to bed and locked the door, she slept on the couch that night. Days went by and we didn't talk much, and she slept on the couch. I stopped playing WoW all together. I thought I could live out the lease until I heard that she is having Tom over. I fucking flipped. She claimed that she had a right to have people over, just like I did. I had to concede and let her invite this fucktard over. When he got there I just kind of glared at him to let him know I was pissed and not having any of his shit. He doesn't say anything to me and then they go in the computer room and shut the door. I got to my bed and start to cry. Then it starts. I hear them fucking. I start going insane with jealousy, rage, and sadness all at once. I don't know what to do. I went to the kitchen and got two Unisom, took them, and passed out shortly after. That was last night. This morning, I logged on to WoW and deleted my mage in a crying fit. I then kicked my computer so hard that the heatsink fell off of the CPU and smashed into my video card, breaking it. I guess I'm at a loss. I really don't know what to do. I've thought about killing myself, but I don't think it would be fair to me, or my friends and family... what little I have.
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that...fucking sucks.
i cant tell you i know how you feel, nothing that bad has ever happened to me. and i always thought id dated some pretty big assholes.
but i can tell you ive felt that low from something. getting dumped sucks, but to deal with that, i cant even imagine the pain. but you have to realize (and i'm sure youve heard this often enough) that she really couldnt be that great of a girl to do that to you. what kind of respect is that? i mean, i know a good person would continue to have respect for their lover, they wouldnt purposefully try to make it harder for you. you'll live on, you wont kill yourself because i know you still hold respect for yourself, even if youve never felt lower, its still there. you'll find other lovers, other flings, other girls, and you'll be happy again soon enough.
you probably hate me for saying all of that, i know i hated everybody with anything positive to say last time i got dumped, but i know it made a ton of sense later. i'm glad i lived to see how much sense it really did make.
good luck with everything.
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Obviously not killing yourself is the good and right choice; no matter how terrible you feel, time always has a funny way of putting things into perspective. However, I don't blame you one bit for feeling what you're feeling right now. Those kinds of situations beat the shit out of anyone in them. Having the guild guy come over to have sex is extremely selfish and careless to a point that's unbelievable. That makes me question her character A LOT. No one deserves that kind of bullshit. If I were you I'd find any way possible to get out of that situation. Have her or you find someone to take your place and have them pay you the rent so that they can pay the lease indirectly. The most important suggestion i can make is to get space, collect yourself and clear your head. It'll be ok, not all women are giant selfserving bitches. That makes me really mad and I feel for you.
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That. Really sucks. I honestly did not expact to read that. First of all, she had no right. Absolutely no right to do that to you. Cheat on you and then bring the fucker home to fuck right next to you? I would have busted down the door and would now be facing murder charges. I mean it, I literally would have beat them both to death. My advice? Move out and leave her and "Tom" with the rent. Or get someone to take over your half of the lease and move back to your parents until you can find a new place, crash on a friends couch or something until you find another place. Craigslist is a good place to find a temporary home possibly. Either that or wait until she goes to sleep and take a shit on her face....then take a picture, post it online and call her "The shit eating whore"....Ok those are all very immature and not at all productive but...consider what i said about moving out ASAP. I had a coworker go through a similar situation and he didnt move out until the end, and it was absolute torture for him until he left. Do not kill yourself. Nobody, and I mean NOBODY wants that. As much as you may have pissed me off in this forum, I am putting all that aside and I think I speak for the whole clan when I say I truly am here for you. This is not something anyone should have to go through, and I wouldn't wish that kind of pain upon my worst enemy. One more thing. Don't forget her, but rather learn from her. I am of the "forgive, but don't forget" mentality in that it's ok after a good amount of time to forgive, people will do things like this and it's not good for the liver to hold it against them forever. but we should never disregard the lesson that can be learned. If you need any advice, or just someone to vent about this, PM me, or xfire whatever man. You shouldn't have to go through this alone and god help me, you won't. ~Camel  SirCrapsalot: i just got turned down by my e boyfriend SirCrapsalot: oh fuck wrong box 3 rabbits are on a log. One of them goes home and hangs himself........Buy a bike!
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Dude, even though you can be a dick at times, even I feel bad for you.
My advice:
The minute you found that shit out, you should have kicked her out or moved out. Yes you have a lease but either have her find a roomate even if it's the tom fuckwad, or you go find some hot bitch to room up with you.
She totally showed you no respect when she had tom over and fucked him. But in a way, you may have let that come because you didn't react harshly enough to finding out about tom. I've been a dog before and when the women let you walk all over them, sometimes it's hard not to.
As for him coming over are you mad? You should have kicked her ass out or beat the shit out of the guy when he came.
I realize that things can be tough, but you gotta toughen up dude. First thing, you may still love her, but it's not gonna work anymore... after all this bullshit, face it, even if you guys ever tried... it would still haunt you.
Don't kill yourself as it will only make you look pitiful. Do everything in your power to be better than the fucktard tom. Get rich, work out, be a fucking pimp so that she can see what she has missed out on. Go fucking find yourself some hot piece of ass and bring her home and fuck the shit out of her. Hell pay some hot escort to come over and just pretend you are fucking her.
Use this bitch as motivation....
If you ever need to talk I'll be here for you too.
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LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOL Not The Face wrote:nate burn in hell asswipe Lead Salad wrote:And he promises to beat up any suspicious negroes and their children as well. Sirus touched me in my private message.
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LOOOL Oh god I have to post again that was fucking great omfg that was the best story ever twitchy man! I fucking LOL'd so hard. Then LOLed til I fucking cried to see the fems after you believing your story. Om F G That was great fucking shit. Fuck man you get mad points. LOOOOOOOOL Not The Face wrote:nate burn in hell asswipe Lead Salad wrote:And he promises to beat up any suspicious negroes and their children as well. Sirus touched me in my private message.
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AAHHHHHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHAHAAHAHAAH Do you honestly think twitch has EVER even been within 30feet of even a semi-nude girl yet alone live with one? HAHAHAHAAHHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHAAHA fucking nubs Not The Face wrote:nate burn in hell asswipe Lead Salad wrote:And he promises to beat up any suspicious negroes and their children as well. Sirus touched me in my private message.
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Who's name is it on the lease? Yours? Kick her the fuck out. Hers? Move out and stay with a friend while you work things out. I read ALL your private messages.
"I don't want the salami." -WDF
WDF: I told her that she could come over if she brought beer.
Sirus: Wait, you made the recovering alcoholic bring beer?
WDF: This shouldn't surprise you, this is me we're talking about... It'll be a test.
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Twitch! we are going to see you on Oprah one day as some great writer!
LOLOLOL
Keep em coming!
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Sirusdv wrote:Who's name is it on the lease?
Yours? Kick her the fuck out.
Hers? Move out and stay with a friend while you work things out.
Sirus: Its Twitchy BS
Sirus: Punish Twitchy
Last time we checked in with the Twitch.. he was maybe 15 I am even thinking 14. If this story was true just call the cops for messing with the minor.
Why doesnt anyone ever take Nate seriously? Once Known as Grumpy... Oh hell lets face it... I have and will always be Grumpy
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HAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!! LOOOOOOOOOOOL damn twitchy that was good. lol hahahahahaha. SirCrapsalot: i just got turned down by my e boyfriend SirCrapsalot: oh fuck wrong box 3 rabbits are on a log. One of them goes home and hangs himself........Buy a bike!
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Vince, Camel, and Poop, i can't beleive you guys took him seriously. Nubs. :) Bike wrote:I like to make werewolf movies. 
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lol i forgot he hadnt gone through puberty yet. haha SirCrapsalot: i just got turned down by my e boyfriend SirCrapsalot: oh fuck wrong box 3 rabbits are on a log. One of them goes home and hangs himself........Buy a bike!
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hahahhaha i cant belive people thought that really happend yeyeyeyeyeye MY SIGNATURE IS BIG AND GREEN.
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