Well, I am really not so partial to threads such as these, but I'm really confused right now.

You see, I dated a girl last year, very nice, funny, beautiful, ect. But, shit started to hit the fan and we eventually broke up. We didn't talk for a while. Durring that time, she started to change, she went from the Nice, Funny, Innocent girl I knew, to some emo dressing, slut looking, skank. She would date boys, clame to like them "soo much" , get dumped, and in a duration of 2 days, would have another guy. I tried to be friends with her, but she changed so much that it was hard. I managed to stay neutral with her all up till now. I found out that she had sex with one of her friends (She has a boyfriend, by the way) And I guess the guy "Blew his load" inside her (He used that termanology). She doesn't know he did, but I'm sure she will find out sooner or later...

But my main delema is that...I don't know wether I should feel bad for her or not.

I usually try not to have sympothy for people who do stupid shit like this, but It's a little hard since I still have feelings for her a little bit, even though I have a girlfriend.

I don't know If I should tell her or not. One part of me wants her to learn her leason and not tell, but the other part feels like telling her.

Help me out here. You seem to help many others, so why not give this a shot.

If shes really fucking that many people, it was bound to happen sometime...it's not your problem, so don't feel bad.

lol... it's been a while since Twich posted one of these threads.

Yeah, I'm going to have to say go fuck yourself on this one Twitchy.  Too many of your posts have been lifted from emo sites.  However, since I could not find where you lifted it from in my ten seconds of searching, I'm going to assume you're not crying wolf this time.

But really, who the fuck cares if the bitch gets pregnant?  (Sore spot for Cantrip; long story.)

If the guy "blew his wad" inside her and was too stupid to not wear a condom, she will have noticed his DNA dripping down her leg afterwards, so you don't need to tell her something she already knows.  If he did, she already knows.

As for you feeling bad about it, for fuck's sake, get over it.  You're what 16, 17 at most?  You have 25 times the amount of hormones your body needs.  In other words, all teenagers are on drugs and blow shit way out of proportion.  Who the fuck cares?

This is not your problem.  It may not even be a problem for her because unless she waits a couple of weeks, gets tested, and confirms she's pregnant, she's not.  It's not even a problem for "the guy" unless she is pregnant, and then, only if it's his kid, and only then after a paternity test.  And she can lie and say she is, or in a moment of hysteria, she can say she "thinks she's pregnant" when she doesn't know at all because she has not been tested.

And if she is pregnant, that's not your problem.  Knowing that some guy told you he blew his wad inside her, then decided to tell you about it, only to have you go tell her about some private moment she had that does not concern you makes you look like a tool.   Remember, she's not pregnant until she is.  If she's pregnant, she will either have a kid, have a miscarriage or have an abortion.  Either way it's none of your business unless you were "the guy" who blew his wad inside her.

And you don't even know if SHE is on birth control or not, so it might all be a moot point.

Fucking emo kids today.  I swear.

Still love you though Twitch.  Bro, we should chill . . .

 

she's your ex, she's pregnant... it's not yours... what's the problem again?

if it's still within 72 hours you should tell her so she can take emergency contraceptives (assuming she can get them, it's really hard in a lot of places because of christian fascist pigs)
if it's been longer than 72 hours then it's too late and doesnt really make a difference whether you tell her. unless you want to get caught up her fucked up drama you're probably better off staying away from her until she grows up, she sounds severely fucked up.

Umm yea, telling a girl you havent fucked you blew a load inside of her... is kinda creepy... Thats kinda like calling a girl and telling her the shirt she is wearing looks realy nice, just plain creepy.