Upon further review, I know what's causing the issues, just not how to fix it.
I am looking into it though.
Edit: Side note. Be patient guys. Reverting back to our old server wasn't an ideal choice, but we simply needed to do it for work.
There is good news, however. Sirus and I have signed on for a job later this spring which should net us a bit of spending cash for "business" related items.
We're planning to swap out our current 3u server with three 1u quad core servers. Hopefully by the summer we'll be running some sick ass servers.
In the mean time, I'm working to try and make this as comfortable as possible. New servers aren't cheap, and we're saving every last penny to get us some new ones.
Thanks for sticking with us.