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McCheese
#1 Posted: : Tuesday, October 07, 2008 12:51:17 AM
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So I want to send a message off to the ex-girlfriend...a little background:  we broke up five years ago, my memory is too good (therefore can be a curse), I am a believer in the concept of Christian forgiveness (read Matthew, Ch. 18:21-35)

thoughts? 

...ready....and...go!

McCheese wrote:
Hello Angela, I hope all is well with you.  While this message will certainly be a surprise and definitely unexpected, my hope is that it is fully read and understood. 

Previously, I have often wondered what I would do or say to you had I ever had an opportunity too see you or communicate with you again.  As I've gotten older, I've reached a higher understanding of my life and what I want to do with it.  I've had a great time being 27.  These last few months have been really good for me, and it's probably the best I've felt in nine years...but there's one little thing, one small matter that lingers in my life that I feel needs to be addressed, and now is the time to address it...that's where you come in...

It comes down to this--I forgive you, Angela--Long ago we did things to each other that I'm sure neither of us were proud of.  I've been wanting to tell you this for over a year, but have not had a proper channel for doing so.  Events from this past weekend opened that door for me, however, when my good friend **** ******** told me you tried to add him as a friend here, one simple search later, and here I am...more and more I think a lot less of coincidence.  Anyway though, like I said, this isn't something new that just popped in my head recently.

Please know that I'm not looking for any sort of apology or any sort of goodwill gesture.  I'm not putting you down or saying this with my nose in the air.  I have been humbled, and I know humility.   I'm just here to say, what I feel, needed to be said.  I know you're happy, and that is awesome.  To love and be loved is to be doubly blessed.

Of course I won't know what your intentions will be after you read this message, but this is my only request: Please don't try to make any sort of reconnection to me.  What I mean is, after you get this, whether it's read or not, I promise you that you will not hear from me again.  Two things:  Know that I am happy, and Know that you have my Forgiveness, even if you feel this was unnecessary and undesired.  We played a big part in each other's lives for a brief time, and here we are...it makes me chuckle a little :-)  Anyway, take care, and spoil that little boy of yours...as the saying goes "Live well, laugh often, and love much."

Goodbye, Angela
{pDs} McCheese



HAHA stupid horse, the sign says Deer crossing

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#2 Posted: : Tuesday, October 07, 2008 1:30:00 AM
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Not bad, not bad at all. I'd recommend something like getting her voicemail instead of an e-mail and one of the forum pedos will find something to nitpick, but that's nice.
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#3 Posted: : Tuesday, October 07, 2008 5:26:11 AM
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A few edits:

McCheese wrote:
Dear Angela,

You're still a whore.

Love,
Mayor Cheesy McHumplefuck
Cantrip
#4 Posted: : Tuesday, October 07, 2008 5:44:35 AM
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Here's the edited version:

McCheese wrote:
Hello Angela, I hope all is well with you.  I just want to take a minute of your time.

I've often wondered what we would say to each other if we ever communicated again. I'm older now and have a better understanding of what I want to do with my life.  These last few months have been really good for me, and it's probably the best I've felt in nine years...but there's one little thing that I feel needs to be addressed.

I want you to know that I forgive you, Angela--Long ago we did things to each other that I'm sure neither of us were proud of.  I've been wanting to tell you this for over a year, but have not had a proper channel for doing so. 

My good friend **** ******** told me you tried to add him as a friend here, one simple search later, and here I am...more and more I think a lot less of coincidence.  Anyway something new that just popped in my head recently.

Please know that I'm not looking for anything from you.  I'm just here to say what I feel, needed to be said.  I know you're happy, and that is awesome.

I don't want try to make any sort of reconnection to me.  What I mean is, after you get this, whether it's read or not, I promise you that you will not hear from me again. 

Two things:  Know that I am happy and Know that you have my Forgiveness, even if you feel this was unnecessary and undesired. 


We played a big part in each other's lives for a brief time, and here we are...it makes me chuckle a little :-)  Anyway, take care.

Goodbye, Angela
{pDs} McCheese

She's going to think you're a stalker. 

Dude, just leave her be and get on with your life.

Or if you must say this:

"Angela, I hope this finds you well.  Recently you tried to add a friend of mine to your friends list which prompted me to do a quick search for you. After some recent reflection I wanted to say that I forgive you for what happened between us and hope have found happiness in your life. While this may seem to you a random communication, it's the act of sending this and not the reading of it that I am interested in as this is to serve as final closure for me and nothing more.  I do not want to resume communications with you, but wish you the best nonetheless. Take care Angela.  You little bitch."
You should be more like Cantrip.



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Razor
#5 Posted: : Tuesday, October 07, 2008 10:09:54 AM
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Send it, put it behind you and move on. 
McCheese
#6 Posted: : Tuesday, October 07, 2008 10:20:41 AM
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Brosnan wrote:
A few edits:

McCheese wrote:
Dear Angela,

You're still a whore.

Love,
Mayor Cheesy McHumplefuck

kind of on the right track if this was three or four years ago

that's what I'll send if/when I'll find out if she ever gets divorced...and I was starting to think nobody understands me, nice work Brosnan

 

Cantrip wrote:

She's going to think you're a stalker. 

I don't care what she would think of me...she was the one that tried adding my friend to facebook...I want nothing to do with her or her friends...it kind of pissed me off that she's still reaching out to my circle, that's a little stalker-ish to me...this is basically a much kinder way to tell her to fuck off and leave my friends and me alone and keep livin her life out in BFE with her bastard son and old-balls husband



HAHA stupid horse, the sign says Deer crossing

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McCheese wrote:

I don't care what she would think of me...she was the one that tried adding my friend to facebook...I want nothing to do with her or her friends...it kind of pissed me off that she's still reaching out to my circle, that's a little stalker-ish to me...this is basically a much kinder way to tell her to fuck off and leave my friends and me alone and keep livin her life out in BFE with her bastard son and old-balls husband

You need to learn to be more expressive.  Say how you feel.  Stop sugar coating your words.  Maybe a thesarus would help. 

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Razor wrote:

McCheese wrote:

I don't care what she would think of me...she was the one that tried adding my friend to facebook...I want nothing to do with her or her friends...it kind of pissed me off that she's still reaching out to my circle, that's a little stalker-ish to me...this is basically a much kinder way to tell her to fuck off and leave my friends and me alone and keep livin her life out in BFE with her bastard son and old-balls husband

You need to learn to be more expressive.  Say how you feel.  Stop sugar coating your words.  Maybe a thesarus would help. 



You're insane, lol.
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#9 Posted: : Tuesday, October 07, 2008 11:03:32 AM
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The only reason to send this is out of spite. Saying that you are sending it to cease all communication will just have the opposite effect.

Also, if you do decide to send it, please do sign it with {pDs} McCheese.
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#10 Posted: : Tuesday, October 07, 2008 11:06:41 AM
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Razor wrote:

McCheese wrote:

I don't care what she would think of me...she was the one that tried adding my friend to facebook...I want nothing to do with her or her friends...it kind of pissed me off that she's still reaching out to my circle, that's a little stalker-ish to me...this is basically a much kinder way to tell her to fuck off and leave my friends and me alone and keep livin her life out in BFE with her bastard son and old-balls husband

You need to learn to be more expressive.  Say how you feel.  Stop sugar coating your words.  Maybe a thesarus would help. 



HAHA stupid horse, the sign says Deer crossing

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For all you know, you may have been dessert on a day-long cock-feast.
McCheese
#11 Posted: : Tuesday, October 07, 2008 11:13:31 AM
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Mrs.Crawdad wrote:
The only reason to send this is out of spite. Saying that you are sending it to cease all communication will just have the opposite effect.

Also, if you do decide to send it, please do sign it with {pDs} McCheese.

Sure it may be a little spiteful, but the point is to cease communication...what expectation could she have had in reaching out to my friends?  Could she have thought they would be facebook buddies, all would be peachy, and I'd never know about it?  The way I kind of see it, she opened the door, and I just want to close it up again.



HAHA stupid horse, the sign says Deer crossing

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Mrs.Crawdad
#12 Posted: : Tuesday, October 07, 2008 11:23:35 AM
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McCheese wrote:

Sure it may be a little spiteful, but the point is to cease communication...what expectation could she have had in reaching out to my friends?  Could she have thought they would be facebook buddies, all would be peachy, and I'd never know about it?  The way I kind of see it, she opened the door, and I just want to close it up again.



All I'm saying is that if you want to open this particular can of worms, then by all means, send the letter. It WILL, however, open the lines of communication that you are trying to close. She isn't going to let that go without a response.

Count on it.
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#13 Posted: : Tuesday, October 07, 2008 11:28:52 AM
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Mrs.Crawdad wrote:
McCheese wrote:

Sure it may be a little spiteful, but the point is to cease communication...what expectation could she have had in reaching out to my friends?  Could she have thought they would be facebook buddies, all would be peachy, and I'd never know about it?  The way I kind of see it, she opened the door, and I just want to close it up again.



All I'm saying is that if you want to open this particular can of worms, then by all means, send the letter. It WILL, however, open the lines of communication that you are trying to close. She isn't going to let that go without a response.

Count on it.

Yeah...I know...I do expect a response, all I say is that I won't respond to any response



HAHA stupid horse, the sign says Deer crossing

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#14 Posted: : Tuesday, October 07, 2008 12:17:54 PM
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Rewrite:

I forgive you for what you have done.  I want to thank you for helping me find the real me.

McCheese wrote:

  

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#15 Posted: : Tuesday, October 07, 2008 12:25:15 PM
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The easiest way to resolve this is to just walk away.  Responding feeds fire, ignoring stifles it.

If you ping something and get no response you ignore it.  If you ping and it replies, you now have a target.
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